After leaving
Ulverstone High, Susannah attended Don College for two years and was successful
with her application for nursing training at the Alfred Hospital in Melbourne.
The training was to start at the end of 1980 which left her with what we now
call a gap year. By then the quiet little schoolgirl had matured into quite a
party girl. In fact she won an award at the end of her second year at Don. No,
nothing academic, it was Flirt of the Year. Her plan was to spend the year
hanging out at the Surf Club beach in summer, Ben Lomond in winter and continue
the part time jobs at the Red Grasshopper pizza shop and the Black Angus steak
house. Our parents had different ideas. They insisted she use her time wisely
and keep her education going. So went to at Devonport TAFE for the one year secretarial course to learning
typing and office skills. At the time she could see no value at all in this and
basically bludged through the course much to the annoyance of Mum who was one
of her teachers there. More on this later.
The move to busy Melbourne as an 18 year old from Ulverstone
was difficult at first, she left a sweetheart behind but soon settled into the
nurse training, study and more importantly the social life of the big city. The
River Arms and the Elimatta were a world away from Inflations, the Tok H and
the other bright lights of Melbourne’s nightclubs. She met a really nice bunch
of trainee nurses that year, many of whom became her lifelong friends.
After graduating in 1984 she bought a one way Aeroflot
ticket to Zurich via Russia, which in those days was a cheap but the long way
to get to Europe. There were several stops en route including a supervised overnight
stopover in communist Moscow. The supervision turned out to be that everyone
was escorted at all times by armed soldiers. After some months of backpacking
through Switzerland, France, UK and Italy she settled in for a summer of casual
work on the Greek island of Corfu. She looked around for work and found that
the ‘stupid’ typing that her parents had insisted she learn actually came in
very handy when she landed a job in a travel agency. Not surprisingly, the local young Greek men
payed much attention to this fun loving bronzed Aussie chick and she soon found
herself in what was to be a five year relationship with one of the young
charmers, Sotiris Lefkaditis. (what a great name) Susannah added another one of
her passions to her resume, cooking. Sotiris mother taught her Greek cuisine
and before long S & S took over a traditional tavern catering mainly for
the locals. With a charcoal grill, cocktail bar and outdoor dining, this little
enterprise kept them busy for more than four years.
She returned to Melbourne (without Sotiris) in 1990 and went
back to her nursing career. 1994 saw her married and soon after, they made a sea
change move from busy St Kilda to 10 acres at Red Hill on the Mornington Peninsula,
an area well known for its beaches, boutique farms and wineries. They lived
there for 15 years with their girls Bonnie and Micah and step daughter Hannah.
Susannah was a fantastic mother and was also the main breadwinner for the
family. She always put herself last and worked tirelessly on the nursing shift
roster while holding the family together through a difficult marriage which
ended in 2011.
She bought a nice renovated beach cottage for herself and
the girls at nearby Balnarrring. She settled in there and just loved her cooking
and vegetable garden. Her generosity helping others was another dominant
characteristic of her personality. She completed the 100km Oxfam walk several
times to raise money for charity. Ever walked 100 km non-stop? It is a huge
feat for anyone but is a major fundraiser. She was always more concerned about
the wellbeing of others than her own comfort. Even with a heavy domestic
workload she still found time to cook huge pots of soup for the underprivileged
children who were sent to school without lunch. Through the lean years of the
marriage she somehow managed to save a few pennies for family holidays to
destinations including Thailand, Papua New Guinea, Wilsons Promontory and to Mt
Buller for ski weekends. But her favourite escape was to return to was the
family home in Ulverstone. She recharged herself with big long sleeps in her
old bedroom, walks along the beach, home cooked dinners with Mum and Dad and
catching up with old friends.
In late 2012 Susannah was diagnosed with advanced pancreatic
cancer. She passed away in February 2013. A funeral was held near her home which
was attended by more than 60 of her nurse friends along with several hundred
family and friends. A few days later, we had a memorial service in Ulverstone.
Strange things happen in this world but during this time we were packing up the
last of our parent’s estate but thankfully we were able to have her memorial
service in a place she loved, in the garden of our family home of 44 years. The
next day we handed the keys over to the new owners of the property.
Later we had a small ceremony to farewell her and our
parents on a small beach at Dove Lake. Their ashes were scattered at that special place where our family visited
every year since 1964.
So sadly missed.
Bill Field
Hey Bill,
ReplyDeleteThis was great reading. I caught up with Susannah in Melbourne when I lived over there and it would have been prior to her going to Europe. I too was struck by the change in her personality and we had a great night getting about the bright lights of inner Melbourne. I only recently discovered that she is no longer with you and know the feeling well, having lost our own sister (Carolyn) in 2010 unexpectedly. Cheers mate